Slush
And I thought I was used to East Coast winters after my seventeen years in LA. I'd forgotten how these late-winter storms can sap your will to live (or at least go outside). Making matters harder, Chet is in a howling phase. At least once a day he throws a fit about something. This morning I was a cruel monster and his worst enemy and he wasn't making me a Valentine's Day card because I made him wear his snow boots in the slush. He insisted that his sneakers would actually keep his feet drier. Not exactly the way I like to wake up but I tried to remain calm and dump him off at school. Of course ten minutes later he's holding my hand and calm as can be. I wish I could scream and yell and then just let it pass again as easily as he does. His fury is like a storm in the tropics, intense but brief and soon the sun is shining hot again. He and I are also big Star Wars fans so I think the next time he flips out I will pretend to be an evil Sith Lord urging Annikin or Luke to feed on his anger and join the dark side. Let's see if it helps control his rage.




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Trey: I've seen your name around for years, but reading your piece in Salon last week prompted me to look for your earlier work. I'm in the middle of "Home Repairs" now, and it's hilarious. We're the same age, and so the cultural references take me back to my college years. I've become addicted to this blog, checking it right after nytimes.com. Would love to get your take on why it's so difficult for black women to find a man. I know you're not an expert or anything, but I'd be interested in your opinion. Jeanette (still looking for the one)
Posted by: Jeanette | February 13, 2008 12:30 PM